This article explains how to improve impromptu public speaking skills either by attending a Toastmasters meeting or incorporating public speaking games into your family routines. 15 buckets of fun themed questions are provided to get you started.
What is Toastmasters?
Toastmasters is an educational organization that builds confidence and teaches public speaking skills through a worldwide network of clubs that meet online and in person. I can personally attest that in my 20+ year career, Toastmasters made the biggest impact on my professional development by a factor of 100. Anxiety speaking in front of others is what led me to start attending meetings and the work that I put in to strengthen my mental fortitude and tactical speaking skills continues to serve me well in both professional and social speaking situations. Strong communication skills are essential in nearly every single profession and can help you rise in your career more quickly. They can also help build confidence for letting your voice be heard in social, community and even household speaking situations.

What is Table Topics?
Table Topics is the impromptu speech part of a Toastmasters club meeting. There is a designated Table Topics master who is in charge of introducing this part of the meeting. Participation is voluntary and doesn’t require advance preparation or sign-up for club members. Each question the Table Topics master poses will be unique and therefore each participant has an opportunity to practice answering a question that they did not know in advance, in front of other audience members. Table Topics helps members simulate how to react during the impromptu public speaking moments that invariably occur in life such as…
- You are at a meeting or event and are asked to introduce yourself to the group and share something interesting about yourself.
- You are called upon to answer a question or share a thought during a work or social event meeting.
- Even just regular conversation or small talk with a group of people can be considered impromptu speaking as you haven’t put together prepared thoughts on a topic.
The more we practice putting ourselves into these impromptu situations, the better we will become at managing any mental or physical stress that can accompany public speaking and / or feeling like you have been put on the spot.
Family Table Topics to Practice at Home
What if you love the idea of Toastmasters Table Topics but it is just not feasible for you to attend a meeting on a regular basis? Introduce a fun Table Topics session in your home. Kids, just like adults, are faced with impromptu public speaking moments all the time. Practicing at home, in a comfortable environment, introduces the public speaking learning process early and ideally builds confidence with this important skill. My kids love any games that have to do with categories or themes. Below are Table Topics questions organized into themes to get you started. Take turns being the Table Topics master and, if you plan in advance, you can have your kids come up with their own fun ideas, themes and questions. You’ll be amazed at the great ideas creative minds bring to the game. You can incorporate Table Topics into family dinnertime or game night.
Family Themes
Summer Activities
- What is your favorite summer activity?
- What is the best summer vacation you have ever taken?
- Would you rather eat ice cream or popsicles and why?
- Are you ready to go back to school at the end of summer?
- Do you prefer to swim in the pool, a lake or the ocean?
- Have you ever had a lemonade stand?

Activities / Crafts
- What is your favorite crafting activity to do at home?
- Do you like to do Legos? Why?
- What is one new activity that you would like to try? For example, sewing, watercolor painting, playing an instrument.
- What is an activity that we haven’t done in a long time?
- What are your thoughts on hiking?
- What board game could you play again and again?
Vacation
- What is your favorite vacation that we have taken as a family?
- Where should we go on our next vacation?
- If you could travel anywhere in the world, where would it be?
- Do you prefer warm or cold weather vacations?
- Do you think camping would be a fun?
- Which state is the US would make a great vacation destination?
- Would you be interested in traveling to a faraway place such as Antartica or Thailand?
Silly
- If you were living on a deserted island, what would you do for food?
- If you were a color of the rainbow, which color would you be and why?
- Tell us a story about your favorite vegetable.
- If you had to start a business this week, what would it be?
- Tell a story about a magical unicorn and an angry troll.
- Would you rather drive a school bus or a train?

Holidays
- What is your favorite holiday and why?
- What is your second favorite holiday?
- What is the best Halloween costume you ever wore?
- Tell me about one of our family holiday traditions that you most enjoy.
- Do you have any ideas for a new holiday tradition that we should try?
- Tell me about a time you were excited to give a gift to another person.
School
- What is the best part of the school day?
- Tell me about the best teacher you have ever had.
- Tell me about what your friends pack in their lunches.
- What do you and your friends like to play at recess?
- What do you miss about home when you are at school?
- What is your favorite sport to play during physical education?
- Tell me about the best school lunch you have ever eaten.
- Which field trip was the most memorable?

Kindness
- When is the last time you did something kind for another person?
- Tell me about a time when someone showed you kindness.
- How does it make you feel to do something thoughtful for a friend?
- How can you help a friend or a family member who is having a hard day?
- When a friend did something thoughtful for you, how did it make you feel?
- Can you remember a time that a teacher was kind to you or another student?
- Tell me about an idea that you have to show kindness to someone else.
Table Topics Participant: PREPARING FOR YOUR QUESTION
Since Table Topics is aimed to help participants practice impromptu public speaking, there is not a way to prepare for your question. What you can do however, is come to the meeting with a growth mindset and be willing to accept whatever question is asked of you. Public speaking is nerve wracking for so many people and it can cause physical manifestations of stress that include a racing heart, sweating, dizziness and more. The human fear of failure and being judged by others is strong and is often the cause of these physical symptoms. The butterflies may never go away completely but the good news is that the more we practice, the less intimidating public speaking becomes, and those unwelcome physical and mental feelings start to lessen.
There is a very real possibility that a response to the question posed to you won’t immediately come to mind. Remind yourself that you are in safe company and are participating to become better prepared for impromptu questions and conversations that will inevitably come your way in life. It is perfectly ok to silently reflect on the question while you think of how to begin. Don’t feel like you need to immediately begin speaking or fill the air with filler words such as “um….hmmm…” if nothing comes to mind right away while you think. Silence can be golden and often takes discipline to exercise. Also, what may feel like minutes of pause to you is probably only a few seconds in reality!
PREPARING TO BE THE TABLE TOPICS MASTER
The role of table topics master is to come prepared with 6-8 questions as the Table Topics session usually lasts 15-20 minutes. The best Table Topics are ideally ones that the majority of your fellow toastmasters will understand and be able to answer vs. a question that is obscure or super niche. Try to avoid anything that is potentially controversial such as politics including any polarizing social issues of the moment. If there are new members attending your chapter meeting for the first time, be sure and explain exactly how Table Topics works so that they understand how to participate, time limits, etc.
In terms of the prepared questions, you have a few options.
- You can pick questions that align with the theme of the meeting, if there is one at your particular Toastmasters club. To do this, you would need to coordinate in advance with the member picking the theme.
- You can choose a theme for your Table Topics session that is independent of any broader meeting themes. For example, you many prepare 6-8 questions around the theme of the Olympics or home improvement
- Your list of questions can be totally random and draw from a variety of categories.
There is really no right answer for how you choose to organize your topic ideas.
Themes
Spring
- Do you undertake spring cleaning each year?
- What Easter candy do you most look forward to eating each year?
- Do you welcome rainy spring days?
- Have you ever thought about planting a springtime garden?
- When you think about springtime as a kid, what comes to mind?
- Tell me about a meal that reminds you of spring.

Entertainment
- Do you participate in any social media?
- What is your guilty pleasure reality tv show of today or in the past?
- If given the opportunity, would you climb Mount Everest or, just hang out at base camp cheering on the others?
- Do you think we are a sports obsessed society?
- Who do you think is the most talented movie star of the present or past?
- Tell us about something interesting you read, for work or relaxation, in the last week.
- Tell us about a favorite movie from when you were a kid.
Fall
- What are your thoughts on the pumpkin spice latte craze?
- What is your favorite fall meal to cook or eat?
- Do you get excited when sweater weather rolls around?
- Do you still go to the pumpkin patch as an adult?
- What was your most memorable Halloween costume?
- What was your favorite candy to get when trick or treating?
Summer
- What was your favorite summer activity as a kid?
- Are you a hot weather person?
- What is your favorite food to eat in the summertime?
- What are your feelings about watermelon?
- When is the last time you went swimming in a lake?
- Smores or ice cream?
- Tell us about one of your summer jobs.

Winter
- How do you like to drink your hot cocoa?
- Do sweaters make you feel warm and cozy or itchy and hot?
- Does a brisk winter walk invigorate you?
- How do you stay warm in the wintertime?
- What is your favorite cold weather holiday tradition?
- What is your favorite song to play at the holidays?
- How does the month of January make you feel?
Deep Thoughts
- Tell us about a recent life lesson that you learned.
- Share a factual tidbit about yourself that not many people may know.
- Share what a perfect morning looks like to you.
- If you had endless resources, tell us about a business you would start.
- If you could take a year off work, and still get paid, what would you do?
- If you could live anywhere else in the US, where would it be?
Food
- Tell us about a meal that you ate in the last day.
- Tell us about a meal you cooked in the last week.
- Do you prefer to cook at home on a Friday night or go out to a restaurant?
- Do you think restaurant prices have made dining out unattainable for many?
- Do you use food delivery services such as Door Dash or Uber Eats?
- What do you eat for lunch most days?
- Do you prefer quick service or traditional restaurant dining?
- Do you enjoy cooking, or does it feel like a chore?

Work
- How do you avoid burnout in your career?
- Which alternative career would you pursue, if given the option?
- Is it easy for you to compartmentalize work?
- Tell us about your most inspiring manager.
- What do you do on your commute to work?
- What is the most important thing you have learned in your career?
- Do you plan to stay in your same career until you retire?
- Have you ever considered becoming an entrepreneur?
Table Topics is a fun part of Toastmasters meetings in that it gives people who may not have signed up for a specified speaking role, an opportunity to get up on stage and share a little bit about themselves with the audience. Above all, whether you are the Table Topics Master or the participant, go into the experience ready to have fun and don’t overthink it!
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